Dharan

Shadi is symbolic just like mangalsutra. It is wornnin neck - a place of gratutude and it goes till heart ehere love resides. Sindoor is for protection of husband.

It's just woman commiting to all things. 

But the Husband wife ko dharan karta hai. Where he is surrounded by the shakti he will be with. (expections are always there)

Now Dharan is a very beautiful word  Dha refersto horse and horse is the only animal who can run continuously with it's buddy.

Daran mean pehenna, varan karna. The husband Varan's the wife. When the longing surpasses time. It makes love like Universe and only then the creation happens. Such is the divinity of ancient vidhis and vidhans

Dharan is the time of surrender of both husband and wife. Only in these moments you feel sex otherwise its just 2 bodies rubbing each other to feel sensations.

Dharan happens when shiva accepts shakti in his swadhishtan chakra and vice versa.